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How Ziji has Remotely helped in the healing of Unhealthy Mother-Daughter Codependence through Distance Aura Healing

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Synopsis of Video:

 

This is a healing about a woman in her late

 

 

20s, who came to me to lose weight, make progress in

 

 

her career, and find a lasting relationship.

 

 

When I tuned in for the healing, I saw that there were a

 

 

lot of mother-related issues.

 

 

I was immediately drawn to her 4th auric layer, what I

 

 

refer to as the 'People Layer of the Aura, where we store

 

 

our interactions with people.

 

 

I could see what I was almost certain was her mother

 

 

in this 4th layer.

 

 

After the healing I, of course, was able to validate that

 

 

my client had 'mother issues'.

 

 

I saw in her 4th layer that her mother's energy was

 

 

very animated. In these visions, her mother energy just

 

 

kept talking and talking. It was a very overbearing and

 

 

overwhelming energy that really engulfed my client

 

 

energetically.

 

 

Now my client said she had 'just' moved away from

 

 

living at home, finally getting her own apartment in the

 

 

city.

 

 

Then I went down to the 3rd layer of the aura, the Mental

 

 

Body, where I could see that the mother was basically

 

 

programming codependent and attachment into my client's

 

 

energy body.

 

Clearly the mother was domineering and oppressing her daughter,

 

unconsciously manipulating her to remain tied to her.

 

I felt like I was hearing the mother energy say things to

 

 

her daughter like

 

'You should do this'...

 

 

'You're not doing this enough'...

 

 

'I didn't like that last boyfriend of yours'

 

 

'So when are you going to bring him home', and

 

 

And now that my client has moved away from home,

 

 

the mother's codependent statements are like:

 

 

'I want to hear from you'.

 

 

'You better call me'.

 

 

I haven't heard from you'.

 

 

etc. etc.

 

 

Finally I went down to the second layer of my client's

 

 

aura, the Emotional Body.

 

 

That's when I really began to understand what was going

 

 

on.

 

 

Now you would think that my client would

 

 

be really sick and tired of her overbearing, co-dependent,

 

 

needy mother. But that's not what I saw when looking

 

 

deeply into my client's aura.

 

 

I actually saw that my client had a lot of love and

 

 

affection for her mother.

 

 

But the fact that she moved away from home, and that she

 

 

realized at some level that her weight issue, her

 

 

difficulty with finding a career, and not being able to

 

 

find a lasting relationship, had something to do with her

 

 

codependent, overbearing, needy mother.

 

 

Nonetheless, looking at my client's heart chakra, there was

 

 

a lot of love coming from her heart towards her mother.

 

 

She just couldn't hurt her mother's feelings,

 

 

She couldn't get angry at her. Could not tell her to

 

 

stop controlling her. Couldn't tell her mother to stop

 

 

calling her all the time.

 

 

Also the solar plexus chakra, which I believe is largely

 

 

associated with our connections to people, showed this

 

 

really strong connection to her mother.

 

 

It was like she was tethered to her mother with a rope,

 

 

She couldn't pull away.

 

 

It was a very, very strong attachment.

 

 

Then when I tuned into the third eye, my client's brain

 

 

was frazzled and confused with so many conflicting

 

 

thoughts.

 

 

Thoughts like:

 

 

'How do I break away'?,

 

 

'Yet I need my mother'!

 

 

'I love talking to her, but she's controlling me'.

 

 

 

'She's keeping me from moving forward'. and

 

 

'God, she talks a lot'! Sometimes I just put the phone

 

 

down and let her talk. I just have to catch my breath for

 

 

a second.

 

 

So her third eye chakra was kind of wild.

 

 

So at this point, I got a vision of a past lifetime which

 

 

was very very interesting.

 

 

It reminded me so much of the Von Trapp Family from The

 

 

Sound Of Music, of course before they had to leave

 

 

due to the Nazi take over.

 

 

If you've seen the movie, you'll remember how cute,

 

 

well-behaved, playful, well groomed, and of course, how

 

 

talented these Von Trapp children were.

 

 

They were also very obedient, but not subconsciously

 

 

harboring feelings of anger and rebellion against the

 

 

nanny, Julie Andrews, or Mr. Von Trapp when he came to

 

 

check up in on the nanny and his kids.

 

 

What I saw in my client in my client's past lifetime

 

 

reminded me of this portion of The Sound of Music.

 

 

I saw my client as a six-year-old. She was very

 

 

obedient. She was being taken care of by a nanny.

 

 

She came from a wealthy family, and her mother was

 

 

always busy, involved in various community-oriented

 

 

projects with other wives of important people.

 

 

In other word, the mother in this past lifetime, wasn't

 

 

around her kid(s) very much.

 

 

When she was around, she was mostly talking to the nanny,

 

 

and making sure that her daughter's got such and such.

 

 

Making sure the nanny braided her daughter's hair.

 

 

Making sure her daughter's clothes were impeccably clean

 

 

and wrinkle free. Etc. Etc.

 

 

I could see that her mother in that lifetime was very

 

 

attractive. Tall and statuesque, and had a really

 

 

beautiful auric energy.

 

 

And even though her mother in this past lifetime was not

 

 

around a lot, my client as a six-year-old nonetheless

 

 

idolized this distant statuesque Goddess, worshipping

 

 

her though not really being able to connect with her.

 

 

And the mother radiated these beautiful energies while

 

 

conferring with the nanny, and so my client as a six-year-

 

 

old got this great energy only secondarily, transferred

 

 

through the nanny.

 

 

So at this point, I was definitely getting the feeling

 

 

that her mother in THIS life, was her mother

 

 

in THAT life.

 

 

I'm not 100% sure, but I definitely got this sense.

 

 

And so my client came into this lifetime, choosing another

 

 

go-around with that distant but beautiful mother from that

 

 

past 'Von Trapp Family' lifetime, wanting to get closer to

 

 

her this time around.

 

 

Wanting to hopefully get a more complete interaction with

 

 

this distant Goddess mother in THIS lifetime.

 

 

What my client didn't quite realize was that when her

 

 

mother was being distant and interacting with

 

 

the other wives in that Von Trapp Family lifetime,

 

 

she was yappin' away, being busy, busy, busy.

 

 

Since she didn't say much to her daughter, her daughter

 

 

couldn't get any real sense of her personality.

 

 

My client as a six-year-old, couldn't see that her mother

 

 

was an overbearing, co-dependent chatterbox with her

 

 

friends.

 

 

When giving instructions to the nanny, none of these

 

 

personality quirks appeared.

 

 

But now, coming into this lifetime, my client felt like

 

 

'I want to get closer to this distant mother that I

 

 

worshipped in the past life’.

 

 

But my client got a little bit more than she bargained

 

 

for!

 

 

Now she got the full brunt of her mother's personality.

 

 

Her mother had this kind of energetic hypnotizing

 

 

quality.

 

 

It was really quite extraordinary.

 

 

When I tuned into my client's emotional body, all of a

 

 

sudden I saw this incredible energetic connection to her

 

 

mother that she couldn't quite get away from.

 

 

She was trying with love and affection to finally break

 

 

these ties, but the mother had this incredible hypnotic

 

 

pull on her daughter's energy field that she couldn't

 

 

break away from.

 

 

When I started to untangle and get inside that

 

 

hypnotic pulling energy, I realized one reason it was so

 

 

hard for my client to detach from it.

 

 

This was because her mother's auric energy field was extremely

 

 

beautiful.

 

 

It was like the strings of a musical instrument, like a

 

 

 

harp. And each pluck of its strings created this beautiful

 

 

celestial kind of melody.

 

 

This musical energy also translated into colors and light.

 

 

There was beautiful royal blue, fuchsia, mauve, purple, green and indigo.

 

 

It was just beautiful!

 

 

So now I really understood that the mother had the

 

 

daughter engulfed in this energetic hypnotic state.

 

 

This field was controlling her and immobilizing her.

 

 

My client couldn't move.

 

 

Thinking then about my client's weight issue, she had this

 

 

kind of bottle shape; a big bulbous flower vase-shaped

 

 

quality to the torso and belly, and then it would taper up

 

 

to kind of a petite, warm, gentle face and eyes.

 

 

Looking at this belly area, I understood why my client

 

 

couldn't move with this hypnotic energy keeping her still,

 

 

keeping her from losing weight, keeping her from moving on

 

 

with her life.

 

 

Every time when my client meets a man, the man is probably

 

 

thinking to himself, 'She's not really with me...there's

 

 

another energy pulling her'.

 

 

Indeed, the mother is always in her daughter's energy

 

 

field, pulling her towards herself and away from others.

 

 

 

The solution that I was guided to do in this

 

 

particular healing, was to help my client break this

 

 

strangling, hypnotic, mother energy that was in an

 

 

unhealthy way, surrounding her with this beautiful musical

 

 

color energy.

 

 

And so that's what we did.

 

 

I basically was guided to do my best to substitute, or

 

 

mimic, the mother's harp melody-note energy.

 

 

Finally, I actually saw the mother psychically kind of

 

 

being repelled away.

 

 

It's like she understood all of a sudden, that I was

 

 

breaking the energy lock that she had on her daughter's

 

 

field.

 

 

And so that's what we did.

 

 

I basically was able to put my client back in her own

 

 

body, back in her own energy field, giving her a sense of

 

 

who she is, independent of this mother energy.

 

 

So that's what I'm hoping.

 

 

I'm hoping that this is going to translate to

 

 

her moving on in her life, finding the love of her

 

 

life, and losing the weight.

 

 

I have a feeling that she'll still continue to

 

 

love her mother and be a great daughter.

 

 

I'm sure she's not going to completely cut the mommy ties,

 

 

but at least energetically she can feel like she's

 

 

her own person at this point.

 

 

Alright...

 

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